Update #1 for 2013: When this was first posted, I had a few people point out that I was talking about self-discipline. True enough! I'm not sure I can conceive of any other form of successful discipline. It's possible that I'm biased because I'm an Agile Coach; or--more likely--that I've become an Agile Coach because of this bias. The "User-Friendly Discipline" is my name for an observed phenomenon, not for something I thought up. It is the only form of real discipline I've ever known to work, in my own life as well as the lives of those I've encountered, over nearly five decades, and on three continents. The assumption that you can force other people to do something as a
discipline is, to me, disproven by my observations of successful
disciplines (as described below). YMMV, but I doubt it. -- Rob
It's 03 January 2011, and I'm going to wait one more day before going to the gym. If you've ever had a gym membership, you know exactly why: Right now, every gym is a zoo of humanity. Right now, hundreds of new people join the gym and try so very hard to live up to their New Year's Resolutions.
But, as the regulars and the staff are aware, most of those newcomers eventually give up and stop coming. Though I'll be happy to have things back to normal, I always feel a little sad for the people who weren't able to establish an ongoing discipline.
The D Word
In my courses, I often ask people what comes to mind when they hear the word "discipline." Images arise of strict teachers with rulers, or boot camp drill sergeants. The word seems to imply rigorous, strenuous rules, extra effort, and--above all else--suffering.
Many people stop going to the gym because they start out too intense. Often their fit (and younger) personal trainer has constructed a regimen suitable for a Marine; or they just push too hard the first day, and still can't lift their arms above their head a week later. Or they tried to dedicate all their free time to this one endeavor, and life (laundry, house-cleaning, overtime, friends) intrudes; or at least provides an excuse.
Discipline: The User-Friendly Definition
The way to establish a consistent, painless discipline is embedded in my formulation of the "acceptance criteria" for a discipline.
A Habit...
A habit is something we do almost unconsciously, and frequently. There are good habits as well as bad. Think about the numerous habitual disciplines you've already established in your daily routine before going to work. Most people shower, put on clothes, and brush their teeth. If you think back, you had to be taught all of these, and some of us probably put up a fuss over these disciplines as children. Do they still seem painful? Would you give them up?
I recall learning (perhaps many decades ago) that to establish a habit, psychologists suggested we repeat the behavior for about 30 days. Whether this rule of thumb is still canon or not, I've found that we must remind ourselves, and perform the activity, repeatedly until we know we can discard the reminder.
A sticky-note on your mirror could remind you to floss. A daily alarm on your calendar software could remind you of the stand-up meeting. A big, visible chart graphing the number of unit-tests checked in to the repository could encourage the team to write tests (first! ;-).
...We Rely On...
For a practice to become a stable discipline, enough people on the team (it could be a team of one) have to be doing it habitually so that it will not die out due to some minor random event (e.g., when two new developers are added, or while three people are out with the flu).
A Tale of Two Teams
I've observed at least two Extreme Programming (XP) teams as they discovered they needed to rush out a release. One organization decided at the last moment to show the product at a trade show. On another team, there was a customer anxious for an early Beta release, and willing to pay.
The reaction of these teams suggested their levels of discipline with various practices. The less-experienced team gave up TDD, pair-programming, refactoring, code-reviews, object-oriented goodness, all manner of sanity; and just cranked something out. The product failed to "wow" anyone, to say the least.
The other team acknowledged the crunch, took a little time to re-prioritize and break down the backlog, then sat down in pairs and practiced their testing and engineering disciplines as though nothing untoward had happened. Their release may have been short on bells and whistles, but it was also very short on defects. (And they sold many licenses and the VCs lived happily ever after, The End. There be Agile Dragons, remember?)
A key lesson from these events was that a discipline isn't ever something we think is "a great idea, in an ideal world, but we're too busy right now in the real world, so could you bug us about it later?" You have to know its true value, in your bones.
Frequency Over Intensity
Here's one of the user-friendly parts: Early on, frequency is more important than intensity. You can tone down the practice until it becomes a habit.
An example for the resolute exerciser: If your muscles are sore, just go do your cardio. (If your regimen is purely cardio, then go play lightly on the weight equipment.) Just go have fun with it.
An example for the blossoming meditator: No time to practice? Sit down and breathe slowly and deeply three times, then get up and go to work. (And try not to curse at traffic lights, or other drivers. ;-)
For the Agile team participant: Try a new practice wholeheartedly for a month (only one to four iterations). You know you can ask the team to reexamine and tweak the practice at every retrospective; so don't evade, grouse over, or sabotage the team's efforts. Do it as though you believed in it, and that your project or career depended on doing it well. (It does.)
My friend Bob Hartman once helped establish a team's pair-programming discipline by asking the team to pair up whenever they were fixing a bug. "If one person broke it, why do you think one person can fix it?"
...Because It Benefits Us
We won't even attempt a new discipline without some indicator that it's valuable. We observe people who are healthy and happy, and they exercise in some way (among other things). We observe teams who produce high-quality software, and they're using fast, automated testing (among other things). We want that!
At the team or organizational level, we want fewer defects, faster time-to-market, more profit!
Weigh Costs, Too
If the individual, team, or organization picks up a new practice, the benefits are probably well-documented. What may not be clear from the literature are the costs. Both have to be considered in order to select the right set of practices for the organization (or organism).
Unfortunately, the costs--or aches and pains--are always more intense when you first start out. So, there's frequently early resistance ("emotional re-evaluation"), which could stifle the burgeoning discipline.
It's Personal
The biggest hurdle hiding within the acceptance criteria may be even more daunting: In order for it to be a discipline, each participant must have experienced (past tense) at least some small personal benefit from the discipline.
Effective disciplines are not followed out of altruism, nor are they followed because people are getting paid to do it the "right" way. Even Mother Theresa admitted to personal benefit and pleasure in helping others. And I've worked with many large organizations who were paying good salaries to people who didn't really do much: They were mostly trying to stay hidden, and waiting for their pension to kick in.
Even those employees are not very happy in their careers. People need more than a big paycheck to feel happy. What's sad is that many of them don't know this. They think "that's the way things are, and there's no way to change the system."
Every good discipline has something in it for you, the practitioner! The benefits of my sample disciplines (exercise, flossing, meditation) are clearly personal, and entirely obvious, right? ;-)
How about Agile disciplines? "What's in it for me?" Here's just a sampling, regarding some of the most peculiar Agile practices ever devised:
Paired programmers report that they are more confident in their solutions. Their defect-density drops, and they spend far less time in the debugger. They feel that they--even the old-timers--are learning from their peers at an exhilarating rate. They are more comfortable around teammates, and more confident in their discussions with management. They have fewer carpal-tunnel-related complaints. Ultimately, the feel more productive.
Disciplined TDD developers report an uncanny level of confidence in the quality, design, and adaptability of their code. At first the costs seem prohibitive: Extra test code needs to be written; and since the design emerges over time, time is spent continuously refactoring (which is the design mechanism in TDD). But after only a few months, they are able to add new behavior into the system in days, rather than weeks; and they use tests to seek out, isolate, and crush defective scenarios (bugs). They report that they recoup nearly all the time they would otherwise spend in the debugger. (I've had developers tell me that they used to spend half their time debugging. What would you do to recoup almost 4 hours of each day?)
Once people get a taste of these benefits, they have a much easier time continuing the practice, and improving upon the required skills. For them, it has become a real discipline.
Additional Suggestions
Stop Lamenting the Past
If your blueprint for success contains (or implies) "Step 1: Build Time Machine" then you need to rethink your plan.
In order to establish a discipline, you must stop dwelling in the past. You're out of shape? You can't leap into strenuous exercise. You have a million lines of untested code? The optimal path is not to take a year off to cover all that code with characterization tests. Hundreds of severity-one defects? Funding a complete rewrite isn't going to help.
There isn't a single discipline on Earth that involves wishing things were otherwise, or fixing everything that's broken.
Stop Blaming
Never punish or berate yourself or your team for the occasional relapse into those old 2010 days.
Acknowledge the lapse, yes. Perform root-cause analysis and see if you need to jiggle your circumstances to prevent a future relapse.
Let me ease your concerns here and now by assuring you that lapses will happen. So, now that you already know, you won't have to argue with yourself about perfection and responsibility. With each lapse, you simply have to re-commit to practicing now and in the future. (And, yes, you will have to pay your personal trainer for the missed session.)
But you can't try to make up for it. One of the worst mistakes I see in the gym is working out twice as long after missing a session, or after eating too many holiday treats. That path leads to further discouraging circumstances. Sure, if there's a minor mistake that can be corrected (e.g., by adding unit-tests around new, untested code), then do it. That's correcting a mistake. "Correcting" a relapse involves extra time practicing the discipline, and that invariably eats into the time needed by some other practice. Tomorrow is another day.
Does this conflict with my suggestion to focus on frequency over intensity? No, because I was not suggesting that if you go a day without (flossing, meditating, a daily stand-up meeting) that you have to start the 30-day clock all over again in order to build the habit. When you fall down, get up, dust yourself off, and get back on the bike.
Stop the Excuses
Don't over-plan your efforts towards a new discipline. A complex plan is full of opportunities for reversal. What we're really doing when we over-think the practice is creating a mental model of our lives where the practice is ultimately not worth the effort.
That is, we invent our own cosmic excuses. This takes a certain level of cleverness. If we are to try something that doesn't come with a guarantee of instant gratification, this cleverness must be tempered with courage.
You're intelligent. You're courageous. What are you planning to try this year? Add a comment and share your experiences.
Update #2 for 2013: I've noticed another impediment to creating a healthy new discipline: Embarrassment, or peer pressure. "Why must you _____?!" people will ask (or imply), incredulously. I have a number of very old habits that a few people have (openly and vocally) suggested were professionally lazy: Exercising three times per week, meditating for 1/2 hour per day, and getting eight hours of sleep on most nights. I don't tell you about these now to be self-aggrandizing (or self-effacing) but as factual examples: For me, they are so routine that when I have to drop one, I become cranky, and much less effective at work. They are all wonderful, productive, professionally supportive, healthy habits. But disciplines that are counter to prevailing culture will meet with resistance. If you can use your own facts and experiences, you will be able to politely and clearly convey the benefits to those who are skeptical. That's how culture is slowly changed. Have courage!
Have a happy and prosperous New Year!
It's 03 January 2011, and I'm going to wait one more day before going to the gym. If you've ever had a gym membership, you know exactly why: Right now, every gym is a zoo of humanity. Right now, hundreds of new people join the gym and try so very hard to live up to their New Year's Resolutions.
But, as the regulars and the staff are aware, most of those newcomers eventually give up and stop coming. Though I'll be happy to have things back to normal, I always feel a little sad for the people who weren't able to establish an ongoing discipline.
The D Word
In my courses, I often ask people what comes to mind when they hear the word "discipline." Images arise of strict teachers with rulers, or boot camp drill sergeants. The word seems to imply rigorous, strenuous rules, extra effort, and--above all else--suffering.
Many people stop going to the gym because they start out too intense. Often their fit (and younger) personal trainer has constructed a regimen suitable for a Marine; or they just push too hard the first day, and still can't lift their arms above their head a week later. Or they tried to dedicate all their free time to this one endeavor, and life (laundry, house-cleaning, overtime, friends) intrudes; or at least provides an excuse.
Discipline: The User-Friendly Definition
The way to establish a consistent, painless discipline is embedded in my formulation of the "acceptance criteria" for a discipline.
- A discipline is a habit...
- ...that you come to rely on, even during difficult times...
- ...because you know that it benefits you, personally.
A Habit...
A habit is something we do almost unconsciously, and frequently. There are good habits as well as bad. Think about the numerous habitual disciplines you've already established in your daily routine before going to work. Most people shower, put on clothes, and brush their teeth. If you think back, you had to be taught all of these, and some of us probably put up a fuss over these disciplines as children. Do they still seem painful? Would you give them up?
I recall learning (perhaps many decades ago) that to establish a habit, psychologists suggested we repeat the behavior for about 30 days. Whether this rule of thumb is still canon or not, I've found that we must remind ourselves, and perform the activity, repeatedly until we know we can discard the reminder.
A sticky-note on your mirror could remind you to floss. A daily alarm on your calendar software could remind you of the stand-up meeting. A big, visible chart graphing the number of unit-tests checked in to the repository could encourage the team to write tests (first! ;-).
...We Rely On...
For a practice to become a stable discipline, enough people on the team (it could be a team of one) have to be doing it habitually so that it will not die out due to some minor random event (e.g., when two new developers are added, or while three people are out with the flu).
A Tale of Two Teams
I've observed at least two Extreme Programming (XP) teams as they discovered they needed to rush out a release. One organization decided at the last moment to show the product at a trade show. On another team, there was a customer anxious for an early Beta release, and willing to pay.
The reaction of these teams suggested their levels of discipline with various practices. The less-experienced team gave up TDD, pair-programming, refactoring, code-reviews, object-oriented goodness, all manner of sanity; and just cranked something out. The product failed to "wow" anyone, to say the least.
The other team acknowledged the crunch, took a little time to re-prioritize and break down the backlog, then sat down in pairs and practiced their testing and engineering disciplines as though nothing untoward had happened. Their release may have been short on bells and whistles, but it was also very short on defects. (And they sold many licenses and the VCs lived happily ever after, The End. There be Agile Dragons, remember?)
A key lesson from these events was that a discipline isn't ever something we think is "a great idea, in an ideal world, but we're too busy right now in the real world, so could you bug us about it later?" You have to know its true value, in your bones.
Frequency Over Intensity
Lather, Rinse, Repeat. Always Repeat.To get there, it's important that you repeat the activity rather consistently before a crisis occurs, and through some minor daily crises. Even when, especially when, it's painful to do so.
-- Homer J. Simpson
Here's one of the user-friendly parts: Early on, frequency is more important than intensity. You can tone down the practice until it becomes a habit.
An example for the resolute exerciser: If your muscles are sore, just go do your cardio. (If your regimen is purely cardio, then go play lightly on the weight equipment.) Just go have fun with it.
An example for the blossoming meditator: No time to practice? Sit down and breathe slowly and deeply three times, then get up and go to work. (And try not to curse at traffic lights, or other drivers. ;-)
For the Agile team participant: Try a new practice wholeheartedly for a month (only one to four iterations). You know you can ask the team to reexamine and tweak the practice at every retrospective; so don't evade, grouse over, or sabotage the team's efforts. Do it as though you believed in it, and that your project or career depended on doing it well. (It does.)
My friend Bob Hartman once helped establish a team's pair-programming discipline by asking the team to pair up whenever they were fixing a bug. "If one person broke it, why do you think one person can fix it?"
...Because It Benefits Us
We won't even attempt a new discipline without some indicator that it's valuable. We observe people who are healthy and happy, and they exercise in some way (among other things). We observe teams who produce high-quality software, and they're using fast, automated testing (among other things). We want that!
At the team or organizational level, we want fewer defects, faster time-to-market, more profit!
Weigh Costs, Too
If the individual, team, or organization picks up a new practice, the benefits are probably well-documented. What may not be clear from the literature are the costs. Both have to be considered in order to select the right set of practices for the organization (or organism).
Unfortunately, the costs--or aches and pains--are always more intense when you first start out. So, there's frequently early resistance ("emotional re-evaluation"), which could stifle the burgeoning discipline.
It's Personal
The biggest hurdle hiding within the acceptance criteria may be even more daunting: In order for it to be a discipline, each participant must have experienced (past tense) at least some small personal benefit from the discipline.
Effective disciplines are not followed out of altruism, nor are they followed because people are getting paid to do it the "right" way. Even Mother Theresa admitted to personal benefit and pleasure in helping others. And I've worked with many large organizations who were paying good salaries to people who didn't really do much: They were mostly trying to stay hidden, and waiting for their pension to kick in.
Even those employees are not very happy in their careers. People need more than a big paycheck to feel happy. What's sad is that many of them don't know this. They think "that's the way things are, and there's no way to change the system."
Every good discipline has something in it for you, the practitioner! The benefits of my sample disciplines (exercise, flossing, meditation) are clearly personal, and entirely obvious, right? ;-)
How about Agile disciplines? "What's in it for me?" Here's just a sampling, regarding some of the most peculiar Agile practices ever devised:
Paired programmers report that they are more confident in their solutions. Their defect-density drops, and they spend far less time in the debugger. They feel that they--even the old-timers--are learning from their peers at an exhilarating rate. They are more comfortable around teammates, and more confident in their discussions with management. They have fewer carpal-tunnel-related complaints. Ultimately, the feel more productive.
Disciplined TDD developers report an uncanny level of confidence in the quality, design, and adaptability of their code. At first the costs seem prohibitive: Extra test code needs to be written; and since the design emerges over time, time is spent continuously refactoring (which is the design mechanism in TDD). But after only a few months, they are able to add new behavior into the system in days, rather than weeks; and they use tests to seek out, isolate, and crush defective scenarios (bugs). They report that they recoup nearly all the time they would otherwise spend in the debugger. (I've had developers tell me that they used to spend half their time debugging. What would you do to recoup almost 4 hours of each day?)
Once people get a taste of these benefits, they have a much easier time continuing the practice, and improving upon the required skills. For them, it has become a real discipline.
Additional Suggestions
Stop Lamenting the Past
If your blueprint for success contains (or implies) "Step 1: Build Time Machine" then you need to rethink your plan.
In order to establish a discipline, you must stop dwelling in the past. You're out of shape? You can't leap into strenuous exercise. You have a million lines of untested code? The optimal path is not to take a year off to cover all that code with characterization tests. Hundreds of severity-one defects? Funding a complete rewrite isn't going to help.
There isn't a single discipline on Earth that involves wishing things were otherwise, or fixing everything that's broken.
Stop Blaming
Never punish or berate yourself or your team for the occasional relapse into those old 2010 days.
Acknowledge the lapse, yes. Perform root-cause analysis and see if you need to jiggle your circumstances to prevent a future relapse.
Let me ease your concerns here and now by assuring you that lapses will happen. So, now that you already know, you won't have to argue with yourself about perfection and responsibility. With each lapse, you simply have to re-commit to practicing now and in the future. (And, yes, you will have to pay your personal trainer for the missed session.)
But you can't try to make up for it. One of the worst mistakes I see in the gym is working out twice as long after missing a session, or after eating too many holiday treats. That path leads to further discouraging circumstances. Sure, if there's a minor mistake that can be corrected (e.g., by adding unit-tests around new, untested code), then do it. That's correcting a mistake. "Correcting" a relapse involves extra time practicing the discipline, and that invariably eats into the time needed by some other practice. Tomorrow is another day.
Does this conflict with my suggestion to focus on frequency over intensity? No, because I was not suggesting that if you go a day without (flossing, meditating, a daily stand-up meeting) that you have to start the 30-day clock all over again in order to build the habit. When you fall down, get up, dust yourself off, and get back on the bike.
Stop the Excuses
Don't over-plan your efforts towards a new discipline. A complex plan is full of opportunities for reversal. What we're really doing when we over-think the practice is creating a mental model of our lives where the practice is ultimately not worth the effort.
That is, we invent our own cosmic excuses. This takes a certain level of cleverness. If we are to try something that doesn't come with a guarantee of instant gratification, this cleverness must be tempered with courage.
You're intelligent. You're courageous. What are you planning to try this year? Add a comment and share your experiences.
Update #2 for 2013: I've noticed another impediment to creating a healthy new discipline: Embarrassment, or peer pressure. "Why must you _____?!" people will ask (or imply), incredulously. I have a number of very old habits that a few people have (openly and vocally) suggested were professionally lazy: Exercising three times per week, meditating for 1/2 hour per day, and getting eight hours of sleep on most nights. I don't tell you about these now to be self-aggrandizing (or self-effacing) but as factual examples: For me, they are so routine that when I have to drop one, I become cranky, and much less effective at work. They are all wonderful, productive, professionally supportive, healthy habits. But disciplines that are counter to prevailing culture will meet with resistance. If you can use your own facts and experiences, you will be able to politely and clearly convey the benefits to those who are skeptical. That's how culture is slowly changed. Have courage!
Have a happy and prosperous New Year!
Nice post, Rob. It's wise to focus on a limited number of new disciplines at a time. I often forget how many moving parts there are to agile and software craftsmanship.
ReplyDeleteI recently tried to think back to '99 when I picked up eXtreme Programming. I was reminded by that to consider the path with which I came to agile and to be patient, or at least understanding, with those I now coach: http://www.andrewfuqua.com/2010/11/how-i-got-into-agile.html. Picking up a new discipline takes persistence and time.
Hey, Rob. I especially like the "user-friendly" definition of "discipline." Common word usage often interferes with understanding, and this is one of those cases.
ReplyDeleteIn my experience, discipline is often equated with externally imposed control. The kind you're talking about is "self-discipline," which I think is the best kind.
What you are calling a discipline our mutual friend and colleague Scott Bain and I call a practice. Scott says a practice must be easy to learn, easy to teach others, very easy to do and provide value at least most of the time. Such practices can become habits, which are the things that we do automatically, without having to think about it.
ReplyDeleteHaving these good habits means that we can still do them when we are under stress so we get benefit from them all the time, especially when we need them the most. I think this is the key to productivity because once a practice becomes habit it becomes natural for us to do.
For example, I know you put a high value on quality software but you are also very fast when you code. When developers start cutting corners they often do not speed up, even though it may seem that way at first. Massive productivity comes from discipline practices, not cutting corners.
In my experience sharing disciplined development practices to thousands of developers, I’ve learned that it is not enough to just learn the practices; we also must fully understand why a practice is important at an emotional level so that our brain is willing to make it a habit.
The Austrian physician Ignaz Semmelweis tried to get surgeons of his day to wash their hands before operating on patients but very few would listen to him because they did not understand germ theory. Without the “Why” of a principle to support a practice we often have trouble convincing ourselves that a practice, no matter how simple, should become habit.
For more on this, please see my blog post:
http://techniquesofdesign.com/2010/10/20/dont-forget-to-wash-your-hands/
One of the things I love about you and the way you teach is you realize adopting a discipline is not just a technical matter. You also realize there is an emotional element to adopting anything new so you make the disciplines you teach compelling by explaining the "why" so people can see the benefit and this takes them more than half-way to making it a habit.
Thank you all for the comments so far! I'm here in my office nodding in agreement.
ReplyDeleteSteve, one might even say that self-discipline is the only form of discipline. You could look at it two ways: We follow imposed discipline so as not to get into trouble; and imposed discipline is really repression, and has nothing to do with acquiring proficiency with a skill.
David, I often waffle over calling something a discipline or a practice. In the post, I tried to stay aware of whether or not I was talking about a practice that had become a habit. So, using this definition, discipline = practice + habit.
Using your example, hand-washing is indeed the practice. Unfortunately, not every health-care worker knows it as a discipline. They know why they must follow the practice, but they take short-cuts due to dry skin, for example (both soap and sanitizers will dry hands to the point of bleeding and stinging). Thus the increase in staph infections in hospitals.
This, of course, is the value of courses like ours! We allow people to learn important disciplines in an environment that is safe (and fun) to the practitioners, and safe to the organization. Imagine if we allowed inexperienced surgeons to practice on their own live, unwitting patients before learning all the necessary disciplines? They may be smart, talented, educated, and--of course--they already know how to wash their hands. Yet...
A discipline takes a practice beyond conscious thought, beyond the need to internally debate its merits any further. A disciplined practitioner cannot give up a discipline without feeling uncomfortable (even crabby ;-).
very good post, very helpful :)
ReplyDelete"Early on, frequency is more important than intensity. You can tone down the practice until it becomes a habit."
ReplyDeleteVery powerful. I've seen people try too much, too soon, and give up because it was too hard. It's all about forward progress.